Charlotte's Thoughts On...
Monday 14 December 2020
Someone's home... but no lights are on.
My thoughts on... SRI LANKA
MY FIRST DAY / NIGHT IN SRI LANKA STARTED LIKE THIS....
You can’t argue the value for money at the family villa I stayed at in Negombo. At around 10pound for my own bedroom with an en suite and breakfast in the morning, it was definitely a good price. Which is something I had to remind myself when I woke up in the morning feeling awkward about the fact I was staying in some person’s house of whom I do not know and where the communication barrier and culture differences were loud and clear.
When I arrived to the villa I am not going to lie when I say I felt rather awkward. Very awkward in fact. I was really thrown into the deep end of travelling solo in a very different country to what I’m used to. When my taxi pulled up to the house, I could see one girl who looked around my age and her mum standing in the drive way. I get out the car. “Hello, nice to meet you” I say.
“Hi” the girl says, whilst her mum stares. No staring in a horrible way, kind of like an observation stare. But the mum doesn’t say anything. Instantly I feel awks. Like I must have something on my face or in my hair because I’m just being… watched.
I make my way into the house and the girl shows me my room, her mother in tow still ‘observing’. I put my bags down and they’re just there, standing at the bedroom door, observing. I don’t know what to do or say, but all I know is that I am parched. I need water. So I walk out the room, the three of us stood in the lounge now, they’re both still looking at me. I’m thinking to myself this feels weird… the girl is welcoming and has a smile on her face but I feel SO awkward. I ask the girl if I can please have some water, as I daren’t drink from the tap, and I always go to sleep with water beside me. She doesn’t know what water is. Oh god. I find myself doing some kind of awkward action of pretending to drink water, like this is a game of charades or something.
“oh, tea? Coffee?” she asks. I should have said yes at this point and left it there but I didn’t want tea or coffee, just a bottle of water… was that too much to ask? (Apperantly so..)
“No, water. You know, in a bottle?”
“Water?” she says
“Yes.. water…”
The girl stares at me blankly. She still has no clue.
“A drink of water” I say, and point to the fish tank right beside her. Beause, you know, it has water in…
Instantly I think to myself “why the fuck did you just point at a fish tank Charlotte? She’s either going to think I want to drink the fish water or she thinks I want to drink a fish…!”
The girl says to me “oh, fishing. Fishing tomorrow.”
NOT FISHING, I want to shout, JUST A GLASS OF WATER. But I poiletly say, no, I’d like a drink.
Now I feel like I sound like an alcoholic who needs an alcoholic beverage at one in the morning whilst at a Sri Lankan family villa by myself. She must be thinking the same, typical Brit abroad, as she replies, “sorry, shops closed.” Ok. Great.
I give up and tell her not to worry. No water for me. But she does bring me in a cup of black tea which was hugely appreciated. At least my thirst was quenched.
I lay down on the bed under a massive fan that is circling round at an epic speed but it’s still so hot in the room. The ned cover they’ve provided is a Kung Fu Panda fleece blanket that I certainly wouldn’t be using. Fleece in this heat? I don’t think so. Luckily I was prepared for moments like these and had packed a sleeping bag liner. Which came into use on many nights in Sri Lanka. Actually I don’t think there was one night when I didn’t use the sleeping bag liner.
MY SRI LANKA ITINERARY
The last week has involved moving around a lot, the only time I have slept in the same bed for two consecutive nights was in Sigiriya. Here’s where I’ve been so far:
I flew into Colombo, landing at just after midnight. I found a cheap family home (read above) to stay at for one night in Negombo. (Read about my stay here, awkward moments and a yummy breakfast). I didn’t see much of Negombo apart from when I took a quick stroll to the beach and left 1000 rupees down. Being a solo female I was clearly a good target for people wanting to sell me things or pull at my heart strings to get some money. (One lady told me about how her son was in hospital with as he had cancer, I felt like I couldn’t not give her some money to help her pay for her bus journey there and back each day.)
Day two, and I had a private taxi driver take me from Negombo to Sigiriya. I found someone for a decent price, around 40pound for a 5 hour journey, through the family villa I stayed at. This included a stop at Dambulla Cave Temple. I don’t know if I would recommend going here, to be honest I think it looks cooler in the pictures than in real life and when I was there I didn’t actually know what I was looking at. Like what the significance was and the story behind it. And even though it looks like it’s been around for hundreds of years it hasn’t even been there for a hundred years, so for me it was a little underwhelming.
I was glad I went though, because I actually didn’t do anything else whilst in Sigiriya apart from chill out at Jungle Vista hostel. Which I loved, because the last couple of weeks were non stop being on the Balintro tour, then flying to Sri Lanka with an 11 hour stop over in Kuala Lumpur.
Most people climb the Sigiriya rock, but at 30pounds I couldn’t jusitfy it, I didn’t want to do it THAT much and the impressive landscape views fromt the top of Dambulla Cave Temple were good enough for me. There’s also the option to do what Jungle Vista called the ‘cheap rock’ for less than five pound but I had recently done Mt. Batur in Bali so wasn’t fussed about that either.
On day three I headed from Sigiriya to Kandy with a girl I met at the hostel. We took the bus which wasn’t very busy so I was buzzing to get a seat. It did fill up as the journey went on and I soon realised that Sri Lankans may not have any awareness of personal space as I had some lady basically laying on me for half of the journey.
All I can say about Kandy is don’t go to Kandy. I mean, of course go there for a stop over to get to somewhere else. But I would highly recommend not going into Kandy - arrive there in the evening, stay at your hostel and then leave for the train station in the morning. Kandy is crazy, and not a good crazy. The roads are mental, with buses, bikes, tuks tuks and cars everywhere, there’s CONSTANT beeping of horns, it’s so noisy, and the air feels dusty and dirty. The whole atmosphere was too hectic for me and the place itself, in my opinion, isn’t nice. The only good thing about Kandy for me was that there was a KFC which served a pretty delicious chicken burger.
The next day we headed to Hatton.
Ella is a stunningly beautiful place. Not just Ella, the whole central provence of Sri Lanka is beautiful. Nuwara Eliya and Hatton offer amazing views for miles that you can’t get bored of. In Nuwara Eliya we went to the Blue Field tea factory where you can have a tour of the factory as well as a cup of their tea for free and went to see a couple of waterfalls and Nuwara Eliya view point afterwards. In Hatton we went to find the Luxapama waterfall an when we got there, we were the only people there at this incredible waterfall. We wanted so badly to climb over all the big rocks to get to the pool under the waterfall but although Say was a ninja and confidently jumped from rock to rock, I didn’t have the balls and didn’t fancy breaking a leg when my travels have just begun.
My thoughts on... TURNING 25
Well I can't fucking remember that now can I, I'm bloody 28 by the time I actually got around to writing this!
All I can say is that I was in Sydney when I turned 25, I was with Zoe and Emily, we went for pizza, then we went to Oktober Fest. Loved by outfit but the 'Oktoberfest' was a bit shite, they didn't even have steins.
FIN
Thursday 11 July 2019
My thoughts on... TRAVELLING SOLO
Thursday 1 February 2018
INTRODUCTION
I must start this post by putting my hands up and admitting that I am serial failed blogger, in that I start a blog and have every intention to keep it but that intention soon fades away and the blog is no more.
In July 2017, I left the UK to go travelling for a couple of months and then to Australia to work and live. I had the best intentions to blog about my journey along the way - I even spent money to have my own domain and a theme to make it look pretty.
However the reality kicked in soon after I left. Firstly, there wasn't much time where I could sit down on my laptop and write a decent blog post. Secondly, I just didn't feel like I had a whole lot to say that would be of interest to the general public.
Then I came up with the idea of creating this blog... 'Charlotte's Thoughts On...'
This is a blog where I will document my thoughts, stories and experiences not only from my travels but my life in general (which may or may not be of interest to you) but gives me a reason to keep a blog. Finally.
I wish you all the enjoyment you can muster.
Peace
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